[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.nargila.cz\/musim-mit-dite\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.nargila.cz\/musim-mit-dite\/","headline":"Mus\u00edm m\u00edt d\u00edt\u011b?","name":"Mus\u00edm m\u00edt d\u00edt\u011b?","description":"Takovou ot\u00e1zku si nejsp\u00ed\u0161e ji\u017e polo\u017eila nejedna \u017eena, kter\u00e9 se p\u0159i ot\u00e1zce mate\u0159stv\u00ed roj\u00ed v...","datePublished":"2019-10-07","dateModified":"2023-04-29","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.nargila.cz\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.nargila.cz\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/591310831c6f562dead2685065c7bfb166baf64da6e0332ad9d0a2e9c6c14446?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/591310831c6f562dead2685065c7bfb166baf64da6e0332ad9d0a2e9c6c14446?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"nargila.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.nargila.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a356359_w3159_t1570958145.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.nargila.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a356359_w3159_t1570958145.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.nargila.cz\/musim-mit-dite\/","about":["D\u011bti"],"wordCount":597,"articleBody":"Takovou ot\u00e1zku si nejsp\u00ed\u0161e ji\u017e polo\u017eila nejedna \u017eena, kter\u00e9 se p\u0159i ot\u00e1zce mate\u0159stv\u00ed roj\u00ed v hlav\u011b n\u011bkolik otazn\u00edk\u016f, a kter\u00e1 si t\u00edm, \u017ee by se m\u011bla rozmno\u017eovat, nen\u00ed \u00fapln\u011b tak jist\u00e1. Kl\u00e1st si takov\u00e9 pochybova\u010dn\u00e9 ot\u00e1zky je v\u0161ak naprosto norm\u00e1ln\u00ed. Ne ka\u017ed\u00fd se na to m\u00edt d\u00edt\u011b prost\u011b c\u00edt\u00ed a nikdo nem\u00e1 povinnost d\u00edt\u011b m\u00edt.\u00a0\u017den\u00e1m je u\u017e od d\u011btsk\u00e9ho v\u011bku tak n\u011bjak vnucov\u00e1no, \u017ee jsou \u017eeny, a t\u00edm p\u00e1dem by m\u011bly m\u00edt d\u011bti \u2013 jak v r\u00e1mci specifick\u00fdch hra\u010dek, tak i r\u016fzn\u00fdch po\u0159ad\u016f \u010di pr\u016fpov\u00eddek \u010dlen\u016f rodiny, kdy V\u00e1m \u0159\u00edkaj\u00ed, \u017ee kup\u0159\u00edkladu tyhle \u0161ati\u010dky a tenhle ko\u010d\u00e1rek po sob\u011b nem\u00e1te vyhazovat, jeliko\u017e ho vyu\u017eijete pro sv\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b. Jako by nejen Va\u0161e rodina, ale cel\u00e1 spole\u010dnost o\u010dek\u00e1vala, \u017ee prost\u011b budete m\u00edt potomka. Na \u017eeny, kter\u00e9 si mate\u0159stv\u00edm nejsou jist\u00e9, \u010di dokonce d\u00edt\u011b m\u00edt rozhodn\u011b necht\u011bj\u00ed, je tak kladen obrovsk\u00fd tlak.\u00a0Pokud jste mlad\u00e1 d\u00edvka\/\u017eena a budete se o sob\u011b \u0161\u00ed\u0159it s t\u00edm, \u017ee nechcete d\u011bti, pravd\u011bpodobn\u011b V\u00e1s v\u011bt\u0161ina lid\u00ed odbyje s t\u00edm, \u017ee jste je\u0161t\u011b mlad\u00e9 a \u017ee za n\u011bkolik let budete mluvit jinak. Ano, je to mo\u017en\u00e9, av\u0161ak tato reakce nen\u00ed \u00fapln\u011b empatick\u00e1 \u2013 je to n\u011bco podobn\u00e9ho, jako byste \u017een\u011b, kter\u00e9 se narodilo d\u00edt\u011b, \u0159ekly, \u017ee si to t\u0159eba je\u0161t\u011b za p\u00e1r let rozmysl\u00ed a u\u017e ho cht\u00edt nebude. Existuj\u00ed \u017eeny, kter\u00e9 maj\u00ed ve sv\u00e9m \u017eivot\u011b pevn\u011b dan\u00e9 c\u00edle a hodnoty, p\u0159i\u010dem\u017e pokud se \u0159ad\u00edte mezi n\u011b a doopravdy si stoj\u00edte za t\u00edm, co od \u017eivota chcete, reakce, \u017ee si to za p\u00e1r let rozmysl\u00edte, V\u00e1s nejsp\u00ed\u0161 moc nepot\u011b\u0161\u00ed.\u00a0Pokud jste ji\u017e star\u0161\u00ed a zhruba ve v\u011bku, kdy \u017eeny v dne\u0161n\u00ed dob\u011b maj\u00ed prvn\u00ed d\u00edt\u011b \/a vy \u017e\u00e1dn\u00e9 nem\u00e1te\/, p\u0159ipravte se na ot\u00e1zky, kter\u00e9 budou sm\u011b\u0159ovat k tomu, kdy to d\u00edt\u011b vlastn\u011b budete m\u00edt \/a kter\u00e9 \u010dasto ani nebudou po\u010d\u00edtat s mo\u017enost\u00ed, \u017ee \u017e\u00e1dn\u00e9 nepl\u00e1nujete\/. Pokud na takov\u00e9 ot\u00e1zky odpov\u00edte, \u017ee \u017e\u00e1dn\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b nepl\u00e1nujete, je dost mo\u017en\u00e9, \u017ee budete zahlceni palbou ot\u00e1zek na to, pro\u010d \u017ee to d\u00edt\u011b vlastn\u011b nechcete m\u00edt, a v\u00fdhr\u016f\u017eek, \u017ee toho budete v budoucnu litovat, pokud si v t\u00e9to dob\u011b d\u00edt\u011b nepo\u0159\u00edd\u00edte.\u00a0Pokud u\u017e jste ve st\u0159edn\u00edm v\u011bku, kdy si ji\u017e nem\u016f\u017eete d\u00edt\u011b dovolit, je pravd\u011bpodobn\u00e9, \u017ee V\u00e1s n\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed lid\u00e9 budou pova\u017eovat za sobeckou kari\u00e9ristku a podiv\u00ednku.\u00a0I p\u0159es to v\u0161echno byste si v\u0161ak m\u011bly st\u00e1t za sv\u00fdm rozhodnut\u00edm. \u017deny toti\u017e nejsou jen chod\u00edc\u00ed rodidla, ale maj\u00ed spoustu jin\u00fdch vlastnost\u00ed, kter\u00fdmi mohou b\u00fdt prosp\u011b\u0161n\u00e9, a tak tvrdit, \u017ee jedin\u00fdm spr\u00e1vn\u00fdm \u017eivotn\u00edm c\u00edlem \u017eeny je m\u00edt d\u00edt\u011b, je vskutku po\u0161etil\u00e9. M\u00e1me tedy na V\u00e1s prosbu: \u017eeny, kter\u00e9 nechcete d\u011bti, n\u00e1sledujte sv\u016fj vnit\u0159n\u00ed hlas a nenechte se do ni\u010deho natla\u010dit \u2013 V\u00e1\u0161 \u017eivotn\u00ed smysl je toti\u017e jen ten, kter\u00fd si samy ur\u010d\u00edte. Ne ten, kter\u00fd V\u00e1m ur\u010d\u00ed spole\u010dnost.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        5\/5 - (1 vote)        "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Mus\u00edm m\u00edt d\u00edt\u011b?","item":"https:\/\/www.nargila.cz\/musim-mit-dite\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]